About this deal
uk/bejewelled-metal-clear-jewelled-butt-plug-3-35-or-4-inch but it seems that might not be thick enough.
No extended anal play, no running downstairs with butt plugs, no objects in me at all that aren't there to make the later f*king by DH easier .I have no interest in being on top, that isn't what makes it exciting for me, but missionary could work.
I would limit the amount of time - even to a minute or 2, until you really get the hang of relaxing and not suffering any unpleasant after effects. My butt plug has quite a thick neck which gives a nice stretching feeling - it's a glass one from Love Honey - but overall is quite short - I don't like the poking feeling of anything going too deep! I'm not advocating no lube, just making use of my own naturally produced + saliva but yes, I did mean a douche. However, the necks of plugs are usually quite slim so you might need a dildo that is a bit thicker to prepare even more.Get him to enter you slowly then stop still to allow you to fully relax and get used to the sensation.